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The 10 Worst Things About the Rehtaeh Parsons Rape Case

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Photo by Flickr user CMCarterSS

Rehtaeh Parsons, a 17-year-old Canadian girl from Cole Harbour, Nova Scotia, died after a suicide attempt.

It all goes back to when she was raped in November 2011, when she was 15.

Her death, and her story, probably would have gone largely unnoticed if her mother hadn't made a Facebook page publicizing her cause. But now it's gone viral, and people are responding.

Here are the 10 seriously messed up things about the Rehtaeh Parsons case.

1. She was raped.

Let's start with the fact that she was raped in the first place. Gang-raped, in fact, by four boys. After months of depression, she hanged herself.

But she was merely one of many women who are raped. In fact, the high estimate of women raped each year is 1.3 million. And a staggering 44 percent of rape victims are, like Rehtaeh, under 18.

2. That she was raped by boys at her own school.

No one reported them. And at first, no one cared. They even taunted her about the rape, according to her mother:

"Rehtaeh is gone today because of the four boys that thought that raping a 15 year old girl was OK and to distribute a photo to ruin her spirit and reputation would be fun. Secondly, all the bullying and messaging and harassment that never let up are also to blame."

And they covered their tracks by claiming she was a slut.

3. The rapists photographed their crime.

Not only that, but in the photograph, one boy was giving a huge thumbs up and smiling.

4. The rapists shared the photograph.

They spread it throughout the school.

Tons of people saw it. And none of them did anything about it, even though they realized the images depicted a rape.

In a blog post, Rehtaeh's father wrote:

"Why is it they didn’t just think they would get away with it; they knew they would get away with it. They took photos of it. They posted it on their Facebook walls. They emailed it to God knows who. They shared it with the world as if it was a funny animation."

5. Other boys teased her about being a slut.

Photo by Flickr user david_shankbone

Some asked her for sex. Others that the rape was her fault.

6. Girls at her school also called her a slut.

Even her friends turned their backs.

That type of social stigma after a teen sexual assault is fairly common.

7. The police did nothing about it.

Well, they did investigate at first, but found "insufficient evidence to lay charges," despite the photographic evidence and Rehtaeh's own statement.

In fact, Nova Scotia’s Justice Minister Ross Landry initially refused to order a review into the case.

Finally, Landry met with Parsons' mother today.

It's unclear if any justice will come of it, however. According to Landry:

"The big issue here is the fact that I heard, I listened."

Yet, her father writes:

"How is it possible for someone to leave a digital trail like that yet the RCMP don’t have evidence of a crime? What were they looking for if photos and bragging weren’t enough?"

(The RCMP is the Royal Canadian Mounted Police.)

Her father also wrote,

"My daughter wasn’t bullied to death, she was disappointed to death."

8. The school did nothing about it.

This, even though many students at the school know who the attackers are. No one was saying anything, however, until someone wrote an open letter to the "hacktivist" group Anonymous asking for their help.

Anonymous says they know who the attackers are, and will make the identities of the attackers public if charges aren't made.

The group even made an announcement on the website Pastebin:

"What we have learned is certainly appalling, but it wasn't the act of rape that shocked us. It was the behavior of the adults in Rehtaeh's life that we found most disturbing. Let's set aside for a moment the compassion they should have shown as human beings and just focus on the responsibilities they had as professionals. We're talking about the school teachers, administrators, the police and prosecutors, those who should have been role models in the late Rehtaeh's life."

Still, her family is showing enormous restraint, asking that the boys' identities remain anonymous.

9. Her family moved away to avoid her tormenters.

Image via Flickr user Dougtone.

They found out about the rape after the picture had spread, and moved from Cole Harbour to Halifax to avoid the incessant bullying in the town, which some say was a result of rape culture.

10. She killed herself.

She locked herself in a bathroom and committed suicide. After her mother broke down the door, she was taken to a hospital and put on life support, but she died on Sunday.


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The 10 Worst Things About the Rehtaeh Parsons Rape Case

Susannah Griffee

Susannah is an NYU student from Memphis who has interned at USA Today College, Games.com, The New Yorker, The New York Times, NBC, and Vogue, as well as in the U.S. House of Representatives. Follow: @susannahgriffee.

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  1. BloodOathX says:

    Just to play Devil’s Advocate a bit… all this information comes from her mother and father. Literally all the information you have heard on the media has come straight out of the mouths of extremely distraught parents.
    I’m not saying it didn’t happen by any means. But cases like these aren’t so cut and dry. Like any crime, there has got to be some kind of due process. If the RCMP does an extended investigation and finds no evidence to sentence or even charge the accused parties, but then the mother says “Oh no, they are definitely rapists”… who’s to say the RCMP were lying? What makes the emotional mother’s word stronger than the word of our National Police Force?
    All I’m saying is that perhaps this is a call to open our eyes in general. But drawing conclusions on a specific case without knowing nearly all the facts is dangerous behaviour.

    • goKicker says:

      BloodOathX Thanks for your comment. There’s also the photograph(s) and whatever statement Rehtaeh gave to the RCMP while she was alive, not to mention anything the four boys in question may have said to people they know. Complicated case.

  2. TheMadShangi1 says:

    goKicker BloodOathX Well as it turns out. There wasn’t even four boys involved, only two. It was consensual sex. Now all the can come up with is bullshit child porn charges just to satisfy a riled up, bloodthirsty public.

  3. goKicker says:

    Where do you get that from, TheMadShangi1?

  4. GlenCanning says:

    TheMadShangi1 goKicker BloodOathX  Interested in where that came from too. There were four boys involved. So says one of them when he wrote an email to Rehtaeh’s mother that was passed on to the RCMP and caused the case to be reopened.

  5. GlenCanning says:

    TheMadShangi3 GlenCanning TheMadShangi1 goKicker BloodOathX  Reading Blatchford’s article hardly makes you informed. She based everything on a Crown Attorney feeding her “part” of Rehtaeh’s file in order to discredit her and defend themselves while not allowing me to see it at all. The police were surprised when the Crown refused to lay charges. 
    As for the “consensual” part that is based on a witness who admits she left before anything happened. Blatchford writes about it being the reason for no charges yet Selena Ross of the Chronicle Herald interviewed the very same “witness” and asked what she meant when she told police the sex was consensual. The girl replied that id Rehtaeh was being raped she would have been screaming and fighting and that would have woken up an adult who was in the house. That adult didn’t wake up, so it must have been consensual. Amazing what happens when a reporter asks a question compared to a columnist who doesn’t.
    In time this will all come out. We still can’t see her file or release it to the public, which we will do. We have nothing to hide.
    As for your A Voice For Men link I’m not sure how to take that. I read some things about Rehtaeh in the Forums there and I’ve never seen so much BS!

  6. GlenCanning says:

    Really Pat? That’s your reply? To spread more unsubstantiated crap and blame? You have no idea what evidence there is or isn’t in this case nor do you know anything about Rehtaeh and what she went through. You know nothing about me either (her mom is not my ex-wife).
    You can tell the other side all you want too. I’m not shouting you down at all, you just happen to be full of shit and I’m calling you on it.
    Your reply is very telling about what you claim you know and what kind of man you are.

  7. TheMadShangi3 says:

    GlenCanning The only person spreading bullshit right now… is you. Fuck off.

  8. GlenCanning says:

    TheMadShangi3 GlenCanning  At least we didn’t raise a rapist or someone who defends and excuses them.

  9. goKicker says:

    GlenCanning TheMadShangi3Per our ToS, we have removed some comments in this thread.

  10. TheMadShangi3 says:

    GlenCanning TheMadShangi3  Alleged rapist, Glen. We still have a thing in this country called “due process” which you and Leah obviously don’t believe in. Funny how after a SECOND investigation, there still wasn’t enough evidence to charge anyone with rape. You sir, helped to raise an irresponsible teen, who for some reason was allowed to smoke pot and go to drinking parties unsupervised.

  11. TheMadShangi3 says:

    goKicker GlenCanning TheMadShangi3  You might as well remove ALL the comments, because it seems more like an attempt at censorship.